LOVE Vs MARRIAGE =..........................?

The story starts wit very beautiful and sophisticated friendship. Frequently the same formula apply s to most of the love stories. In few months or within a year friendship gets converted into love. That is different story whether it use to be a genuine affection or something else. While listening to one of the complexed terrible story my mind literally forced me to wonder about the fact. Is it really true that one girl and guy can’t stay just as best friends? 

Two unknown people come together. They share their happiness, pain and golden moments together as these are the inseparable factors of human life. They spend minimum five to six years together. Even they do firm commitments about their marriage that they will marry each other and they will spend their whole life together. But after spending such an incredible year’s together when theirs the time to get committed into the holy relationship of marriage, one of them suddenly discovers that his or her partner is not financially stable. She or he is not well maintained her or himself. They belong to different casts and as per their community culture they can’t get marry.

When they did friendship, they shared the relation of boyfriend and girl friend. They stayed together like a couple. That time cast factor wasn’t bothering them. Their financial conditions, body structures, their family problems were the things from another planet. They were just the formal and useless factors for them. Those days they were ready to die for each other. They were ready to spend each second of their life together.  They were desperate to share their happiest and extremely painful moments together. Even they swore on each other by keeping their hands on each others heads and as well on gods frame. Each time they promised each other that till the last second of their life they would stay together. They believed that they are made for each other. Then at the end of the time when they are obliged to deliver their commitments to the bottom why they contemplate about all those useless factors. 

Following is the terrifying reality one of them intellectually realises.

 In this world while doing a marriage the person whom you love is most important or the factors his or her partner is pointing out are essential. 

While loving each other they never felt that love is a blind. But while doing a marriage they abruptly discovered that their love was blind and they would have once pondered about their choices.

While doing the firm marriage commitment they never contemplated about the society and their community culture. They kept the potential to face all the obstacles but today all of sudden it becomes most important and crucial thing for one of them.

While doing the promises about spending their life together they never bothered about their cast differences. Though while transforming their love relation into the marriage they bothers about their cast differences. 

When they were in to the deep love with each other their natures, their understanding and tenderness was more important than anything else but today they becomes ready to get separated. 

While loving each other they were feeling lucky of having each other in their life but while marrying unluckiness rises between them.

One of them becomes the heart broken and contemplates

Did he or she really love me?

What the hell I did so he or she left me alone?

While falling in to the love cast, society and community were the useless things for him or her. Then today why they have became most fundamental stuffs to him or her?

What about the golden moments we shared together?

What about his or her commitments. They were really firm promises or just a...............?

Really god makes the pairs on this holy earth. If he does that then why he brings two wrong persons together who are not made for each other? Is it just to leave them heart broken or...............?

In this world really love exists or................?

Will I be able to forget her or him?

Will I be able to leave without her or him?

If she or he had to leave me alone as one of the heartbroken person then why the hell he or she came in to my life and made false commitments and promises?

In all of those painful situations very few keeps the potential to face the reality and swim across the waves of painful ocean.

Few comes out of those miserable situations and gets ready to start with new life

Even some coward people consider it end of their life and they really end their life. 

And most of people tolerate this pain by doing the friendship with FOUR BOTTLES OF VODKA OR RUM. As KHUSHI HO YA GUM ALWAYS APNI HUMDUM TWO BOTTLES OF RUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOVE Vs MARRIAGE= 4 BOTTLES OF VODKA + 2 BOTTLES OF RUM

  (Don’t take it seriously)

In all of these dilemmas I would like to suggest few things to all of you.

 Never underestimate yourself in any painful situation. Life is an incredible gift from god.

 “If you know your potential then, nobody holds the power to let you down”.

If you take a real example of small lake, Birds which always wonders around the lake fly’s away when the lake gets dry. But the lotus which arises with that lake dies with it as soon as it gets dry. 

So always be capable to recognize the birds and lotus in your life.