Major Reasons Responsible for Breakup or Divorce

It is bit easy to fall in love but its bit hard to survive and continue with everlasting relationship or married life. Once we fall in love everything seems beautiful and heavenly perfect for next few months or fairly a year. Certain quarrels, disappointments and arguments take the places in lovely relationship. Couples continue with fights, dissatisfaction, depression, clashes and uncertainty and then eventually frustratingly end up with breakup or divorce as an ultimate step.   

Daily we see several cases around us. Once couple does breakup or ends up with the divorce always they starts scratching their brains. Why the hell they would have got married at first place if the relation had to end up with such a bitter way?

The possible reasons are maximum time common.

Unfamiliarity

Without clear acquaintance couple gets married but while going through daily lives they realize about the several mismatched things between them. Few times it becomes hard to match with each others rhythm. For example: Their behaviors, routines, interests, natures, perceptions, point of views and life principles. 

Financial Conditions

This is also a major reason. While getting married or falling into the love nobody cares about the financial income of our partner as love is the natural tendency of human being and most of the time we always say love is blind. But after getting married or after becoming a perfect couple when you have to pay off daily bills, general expenses and shopping bills all of sudden blind love gets aware of new vision and arguments starts occupying the place of love.

Lack of management

You might get surprised at this point as management is also important while going through the daily routines. Most of the time husband expects the wife to handle all the household responsibilities. But women are also well educated and even they financially support the home so they expect their partners to share the household responsibilities. But somewhere for husbands working in the kitchen becomes prestigious issue and instead of daily hugs disasters takes place in the relationship.

Family differences

For small clashes they start talking about where the girl or guy grew up and what was her or his background. There’s the difference in each individual and most important thing is that nobody is perfect. We need to voluntarily process towards the perfection but instead of fixing the bad patches couples entertain their pasts and backgrounds. Unfortunately it leads towards losing the respect for each other. 

Cheating

Now a day cheating is becoming a major reason for breakups and divorces. Married or engaged couples several time runs out of the relationship and secretly forms illegal relational bonding. Automatically all the faithful commitments break down. This is the direct terminator to split-up the relation or proceed for divorce. As trust is the major factor for being in relationship but if there’s no trust everything becomes worst.

Different Opinions

Your different opinions on the single point may trigger the cause for mess. To convince your point of view you need to have a better sense of mutual understanding. If you do mistake while justifying your fact then it could lead towards the misunderstanding or your partner may consider you as a dominating person.

Lack of Romance

Passionate romantic couple always enjoy the vital loving relationship or married life. Sex and romance is the most important factor to make your bounding and affection strong.  From a single touch to several kisses and tender hugs every move performs its crucial role. But if anyone of the partner is unromantic or there the lack of interest for physical relationship then it definitely transforms your happiness into irritation. Maximum time there’s the chances that one of the partner could start to search his or her lust out of the relationship.

Inferiority Complex

Sometimes inferiority complex also becomes the major issue for arguments and disbelief. The antagonist partner becomes more possessive and aggressive which leads towards the mental harassment, insecurity and eventually towards the breakup or divorce.